Brief Answer:
The reason he behaves like that can be answered only after interviewing him

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for writing to us.

I can understand your feelings.

His yelling at you suggests following possibilities.

-He is in some stress.Many times person reacts to stress with yelling and anger. Specifically this anger is diverted to near and dear ones. So you are being the girlfriend of him he is yelling at you.

-Other thing might be he is suffering from some psychiatric problem. However in this his behavior to others also would not be normal.

-This might be his nature. If his behavior is like that since beginning of childhood, it might be his personality traits or personality disorder.

-And the worst possibility is he may be not liking you anymore and he wants break up. He can not tell you the same directly but through this behavior he can indirectly force you to do the same.

Please understand that these are the common possibilities. However best reason can only identified if he is interviewed in detail by professional.

I request you to ask him directly about his yelling behavior towards you directly.Let him know that you cannot tolerate anymore if he is not ready to change. Also tell him that if he has some problem he can discuss with you and try to find the solution.


Let me know few things.

-Since when are you in relationship with him? How close and deep the relationship is there?

-Is this behavior there since beginning of your relationship or started later?

-Does he behave only with you like that or others also?

-Please describe incidence f his shouting with example.

Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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