Suggest Treatment For Delayed Ejaculation And Difficulty In Attaining Orgasms

Posted on Sat, 20 Dec 2014

Question: Hi my boyfriend has engaged in rough grip masturbation for nearly 20 years which has resulted in delayed ejaculation but I am now after discovering that the few times he does ejaculate he doesn't experience an orgasm. Please can you tell us how to go about solving both the DE and his inability to experience orgasm as it's causing huge strain on the relationship

Answered by Dr. Ravi Soni (8 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Sexologist consultation will help

Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for your query. Welcome to HCM.

Masturbation is normal practice in boys and it is not a bad habit. Chronic masturbation for years usually result into early ejaculation not the late one.

Delayed ejaculation and inability to experience orgasm are something unusual at this age. I here by suggest you to go for sexologist consultation.
Only after that we can understand that this is only psychological or we have to go for investigations.

Another important point is use of substance. Chronic and regular use of substances like marijuana, cocaine, psycho-stimulant drugs, excessive alcohol all can result in these problems. Does he have any substance abuse or dependence?

Does he has any neurological illness? Injury over lower back with accident?

Do not worry If there is nothing physically wrong then there are drugs that can cure his problems. I just want to clear my mind about other possibilities.

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Hope I have answered your query. If you have further query then feel free to ask.

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