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Suggest Treatment For Delayed Ejaculation

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Posted on Thu, 4 Sep 2014
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I am having a problem. I have lot of anxiety depression and fear. I used to masturbate which I left it 3 months ago After leaving I usually got wet dreams like sometimes ones in 2 weeks or once in 1 week. Sometimes I would have a dream but no ejaculation. The next day when I urinate I would have mild burning and pain in penis. This would clear up if I ejaculate again. But I have so much anxiety and depression that I dont even wana masturbate and even in dream I wake up in middle before ejaculation. Could my symptoms be caused by prostate problem or anxiety and depression
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Answered by Dr. Srikanth Reddy (13 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Clarifications

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
I have gone through your question in detail and I can understand what you are going through.
However I would like a few more details before I can answer your query.
1) Why do you feel doing masturbation is bad?
2) How can masturbation harm you?
3) Is there burning sensation all the time or only until you urinate?
Hope to hear from you at your earliest convinience.
Thanks
Dr. Srikanth Reddy
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Srikanth Reddy (7 minutes later)
Its only when I have a sexual dream without ejaculation I have burning in urine. Then out of necessity I do masturbate. But that time I m in so much depression and anxiety that it takes me very long to ejaculate and and have difficulty ejaculating but after ejaculation the next day things are fine.
I also have panic attacks when I am sleeping. I suddenly wake up full of anxiety and cannot sleep well
I am having this only since a month
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Answered by Dr. Srikanth Reddy (25 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Myths about masturbation

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Masturbation is a kind of self stimulation and ejaculation which mimics the actual sexual experience. Our society is filled up with loads of myths about masturbation. However, time and ever, science has always shown that masturbation is a form of safe way of expressing ones sexual desires and at any stage will not cause harm to the health.
The ejaculate which comes out during masturbation , forms regularly in the body and the more you use it, the more it is formed and it is completely natural. If you will not masturbate, there will be a night fall as the formed semen has to come out and will not accumulate. So there should be no depression or anxiety associated with masturbation and as a sexologist I suggest that you may indulge in it without guilt.
Regarding the problem of burning urination on the day after a wet dream, again this is natural. The ejaculate generally dries up and it may take some efforts to flush it out. This may lead to some irritation which you are sensing as burning. As the symptom lasts only for 1 days, again you need not bother.
Your problems are due to anxiety related to the misconceptions about the safety of masturbation.
Let me know if you have any further queries,
Kind regards
Dr. Srikanth Reddy MD
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Srikanth Reddy (3 days later)
My major problem is that I am having sexual dream and maybe an orgasm as well but no ejaculation. This is causing me pain in left scrotal. What could be reason for no ejaculation? Could there be some blockage in spermatic or seminal pathway. Could this be also caused by prostatitis? A doctor told me that I am suffering from chronic prostatitis.
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Answered by Dr. Srikanth Reddy (27 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Its very common

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Its very common to have a non-ejaculatory orgasm in the night. However if you are ejaculating well after masturbation then there is no need to worry. All these symptoms will settle down ones you get married and start enjoying regular sex with regular ejaculations.
The symptoms that you have suggested do not suggest prostatitis. Moreover the clinical diagnosis of prostatitis is very vague and it would be wise to send a semen sample for microscopic examination. If by any chance this comes positive for WBC's only then prostatitis should be suspected.
Hope this helps
Let me know, if you have any further query.
Kind regards
Dr. Srikanth Reddy MD
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Suggest Treatment For Delayed Ejaculation

Brief Answer: Clarifications Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query. I have gone through your question in detail and I can understand what you are going through. However I would like a few more details before I can answer your query. 1) Why do you feel doing masturbation is bad? 2) How can masturbation harm you? 3) Is there burning sensation all the time or only until you urinate? Hope to hear from you at your earliest convinience. Thanks Dr. Srikanth Reddy