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Question: Hello Doc. I am of 36 years old man. Recently married. But having nightfall problem once or twice in a month. My penis does not get erected during sex. It is very thin. I have also under weight. My penis is also little bit inclined. Is there any medicine or operation for solving such problems. I want to make my wife happy. Please suggest me.
Brief Answer:
Tadalafil will help.
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Welcome to HCM.
I can understand your concerns.
I think your main problem is of erection.
Nightfall and slight inclination of penis are absolutely normal things.
I would recommend you tablet tadalafil (prescription drug). It is to be taken 2 hours prior to intercourse. It is a safe and effective drug.
There is no safe surgery to increase the thickness. I would not recommend you to go for any such surgeries.
What matters most is the sustained erection. Size and thickness does not matter much.
Just consult your doctor for a valid prescription of the drug.
I wish you well.
Thanks.
Tadalafil will help.
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Welcome to HCM.
I can understand your concerns.
I think your main problem is of erection.
Nightfall and slight inclination of penis are absolutely normal things.
I would recommend you tablet tadalafil (prescription drug). It is to be taken 2 hours prior to intercourse. It is a safe and effective drug.
There is no safe surgery to increase the thickness. I would not recommend you to go for any such surgeries.
What matters most is the sustained erection. Size and thickness does not matter much.
Just consult your doctor for a valid prescription of the drug.
I wish you well.
Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Your reply made me little bit relaxed. Thank you Doc. But want to ask more question. Is any kind of blood test or any other test required like thyroid test, hormonal test etc? I have also under weight. I am having pain when the outer skin on penis is opened up. Is it normal? I can not motivate myself for sex. I do not get much seduced. Is it due to my mental stress? or I need counselling?
Brief Answer:
Performance anxiety.
Detailed Answer:
Hi again.
Sorry for late response.
In my opinion, there is no need of any blood test because your problem is mainly psychological.
You are having nightfalls. This suggest that you are having night time erections.
The common reason for such problem in a newly wed couple is performance anxiety.
The pain which you have when your penile skin is stretched is normal. The will gradually loosen and the pain will disappear.
I think you have become apprehensive due to all these doubts going in your mind.
You should not worry.
Engage more time in foreplay with your partner. Tell her how you feel. Discuss your anxiety with her. A supportive partner will understand this.
I feel you are absolutely fine. If there is still any problem in erection, you can take drug tadalafil (prescription drug).
Hope this helps.
Wish you happy married life.
Thanks.
Performance anxiety.
Detailed Answer:
Hi again.
Sorry for late response.
In my opinion, there is no need of any blood test because your problem is mainly psychological.
You are having nightfalls. This suggest that you are having night time erections.
The common reason for such problem in a newly wed couple is performance anxiety.
The pain which you have when your penile skin is stretched is normal. The will gradually loosen and the pain will disappear.
I think you have become apprehensive due to all these doubts going in your mind.
You should not worry.
Engage more time in foreplay with your partner. Tell her how you feel. Discuss your anxiety with her. A supportive partner will understand this.
I feel you are absolutely fine. If there is still any problem in erection, you can take drug tadalafil (prescription drug).
Hope this helps.
Wish you happy married life.
Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks a lot doc. One more question I want to ask. I don't like deep kissing and sucking and leaking. Is it my psychological problem? Also my wife has some hair on her breast. I cannot motivate myself for sucking. Actually I don't do that due to this reason. I even don't like to kiss deeply. Are they due to my mental pressure or is it a psychological problem? What should I do? Is my wife okay? Is there no therapy for permanently remove her those unnecessary hair? Can I be normal and make fun with my wife? How could I motivate myself for foreplay?
Brief Answer:
You both are normal.
Detailed Answer:
Hi again.
Sorry for late response.
As your wife has some hair on her breast, probably that's why you have developed repulsion for kissing and sucking.
This a normal thing.
I would suggest you to consult a skin specialist for her. There are hair removal creams or laser treatments for hair removal which can help to solve your problem.
Yes, everything is normal as far as I think.
You can create a romantic ambience with some soft music, perfume s etc in your room. Change the place and time of love making frequently. You both can read a errotic story or watch a sensual movie together. Spare out some time for a holiday.
Enjoy love making. Do not force yourself for this.
Hope this helps.
I wish you well.
Thanks.
You both are normal.
Detailed Answer:
Hi again.
Sorry for late response.
As your wife has some hair on her breast, probably that's why you have developed repulsion for kissing and sucking.
This a normal thing.
I would suggest you to consult a skin specialist for her. There are hair removal creams or laser treatments for hair removal which can help to solve your problem.
Yes, everything is normal as far as I think.
You can create a romantic ambience with some soft music, perfume s etc in your room. Change the place and time of love making frequently. You both can read a errotic story or watch a sensual movie together. Spare out some time for a holiday.
Enjoy love making. Do not force yourself for this.
Hope this helps.
I wish you well.
Thanks.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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