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Suggest Treatment For Lack Of Insight In Psychotic And Affective Disorders

Posted on Mon, 7 Sep 2015

Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi please..I am taking a lot of pills again..the only thing important to me in my life is XXXXXXX He had not made a motion to dismiss this appeal or his injunction so obviously he wants it to stay in place.
That tells me he wants nothing to do with me and no longer is in love with me...so there is no reason for me to go on living...I will wait until I get to israel before i kill myself though I could do it accidentally if I take enough pills..it is much better not being conscious...if I didn't have to I would just stay here and take every pill I had but I have to wait now until I get my son to Israel..tell me, do you think XXXXXXX still cares? Its been almost two years since he turned against me...I guess after all that time he no longer loves me right?

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
He lacks insight so difficult to predict

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

What happened, you have mentioned that he didn't want injunction to stay in place. Has he changed the mind or his lawyer said anything. Wait for some time and let the final orders come.

He is psychotic and lacks insight. We have discussed this thing a lot of times also. If he cares or not is not a question. He lacks insight, initially he distanced himself from you due to delusions and entities calling him to kill someone. So due to this he has changed his behaviour. So to predict exactly he should undergo evaluation under a trained psychiatrist. Treatment of his symptoms would help in improvement. Please wait for some time and lets see what happens. He cares about you, this was the probable reason he didn't want injunction to remain in place in last hearing.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

My feeling too was that he cared about me but also he wants this court stuff to go away, but he could just have his lawyer dismiss it. If he really wanted it to go away he could tell his lawyer to dismiss it before the judge makes his ruling on the case. At any rate I hurt so badly I am not sure how much longer I can wait until I commit suicide. I have been talking to you for nine months now and its been a year and a half or longer since he has been gone...I cant even watch TV any longer.I don't want to be here.I want to be dead...and I don't believe in god anymore...i am waiting until we get to Israel and get XXXXXXX on all my accounts and social security...
then I will kill myself...
His lawyer hasn't said anything. except in court, that XXXXXXX just wanted it all to go away..maybe that means he wants me to go away too. I don't know. I haven't heard anything from his lawyer. we leave on the 31st of this month about one and a half weeks from now...it all to go away sounds to me like he wants to be rid of me

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (13 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Don't over medicate yourself

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Wait for final decision of the court. Initially it appeared that XXXXXXX doesn't want injunction to stay and he wanted to let you people legally free. Still hope for the best. Some times things doesn't remain in our hand and let the time decide what happens in future. XXXXXXX has no one who can care for him, he has no insight and he is not on any sort of treatment and all these things are worsening the case.

Please remain relaxed and get ready to go to Israel. Don't even think of doing any bad thing. Taking high doses of medicines will make your health worse only and this will increase your financial burden. So try to avoid doing anything bad. Hope for the best.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (17 minutes later)

i am in too much pain to stay conscious so that is why i am taking the medicines. once in israel i will take everything i have i cant wait any more..not sure i can even wait till then except i dont want my son to live with his dad

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (17 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Remain hopeful and don't take medicines in high doses.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

I know it's difficult but try to remain calm and hopeful. Please don't think of taking all medicines as this will worsen the situation only. Take care of yourself and remain hopeful.

Wait for next court hearing and don't think bad about yourself.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (19 minutes later)

there are no more court hearings. knowing there is no one here to help him and i am going to be gone makes me feel even worse. if XXXXXXX doesn't get it dismissed on his own it could be weeks or months before i would know what if anything the court decides,,i don't know why taking all my medicines at once would be a bad thing. i would no longer be in any pain...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Try to remain calm

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Taking all the medicines at one time will result in effects on kidneys, liver and general health. This might land you in hospital. So don't even think to take medicines in overdose.

If the hearing is complete then wait for court order. Don't think that they will order against you. Try not to anticipate the things.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (10 hours later)

I cannot wait and am disappointed that XXXXXXX and his lawyer didn't just dismiss this.If he really cared he would have had it dismissed.Surely his lawyer knows he could do this...there is no way that we can tell what his real feelings are except for this...it seems as though he no longer cares or he would dismiss it..he knows by now that we are leaving and he still doesn't dismiss it..when we get to israel i am going to barage him with emails...i am so angry with him...and he won't be able to do anything about it..he will just have to teke the emails...he is so stupid to think that i would harm him when he loved me so much and i loved him..why would he thinkthat i would harm him? Maybe the court will have him evaluated and treated but that could take months...I can't wait that long...I don't care about my liver and kidneys..they are already in bad shape..who cares? I will be dead in a few weeks anyway...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (8 hours later)

Brief Answer:
See the positive things of life

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please don't think of dying. Try to appreciate the positive aspects of life. Therw are many good things in life and we should appreciate this. Don't feel bad about all this, hope for the good. You will be moving Israel in some time and get ready for that. Try to contact his lawyer if possible legally, he might help you, but I am not sure.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (4 hours later)

I will send his lawyer a letter but he main thing i now know he does not love me anymore...i don't want to live anymore and for me there are no more positive aspects of life.. XXXXXXX has rejected me and so i don't want to live anymore...its good bye XXXXXXX ..you can't tell me any longer whether or not he still loves me...he doesn't even want to dismiss the injunction....

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (11 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Try to contact his lawyer if possible but in legal limits

Detailed Answer:
Hello again, I am sorry to reply late as I was a little busy.

Try to contact him and see if he helps in dropping the injunction. If the injunction is dropped by mutual decision then that can be a good thing.

He hasn't rejected you, he has no insight so how can he reject you. His judgement is beyond the points of rejection or acceptance. He can't decide between right and wrong. So please don't think that he has rejected you. Try to avoid thinking about all these things. Please don't try to take medicines in overdose as this might harm you.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (35 minutes later)

Okay,I will try to contact his lawyer.I have to leave my new address with him anyway.Thanks.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (4 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Thanks and good luck

Detailed Answer:
Thanks and good luck

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar