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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation And Sexual Dysfunction

Posted on Mon, 27 Apr 2015

Question: Sir, i see you also deal with sexual dysfunction. one problem i face is very fast coming everytime i do masturbation. I am single and scared to get married as this may cause to divorce as i heard girls dont like men coming fast. Any suggestion?
I am 41 years old male and not married. I suffered very fast ejaculation while performing sex with my previous girl friends.
Mr XXXXXXX
USA

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
dapoxetine; home remedies; behavioral methods.

Detailed Answer:
Hello Mr. XXXXXXX
Welcome to HealthcareMagic.

Thanks for directing your query to me.

I can understand your concerns.

Let me tell you some facts about normal sexuality:
1. Heightened excitement (which includes erection) lasts from 30 seconds to several minutes.
2. Orgasm (ejaculation) lasts from 3 to 25 seconds.

Premature ejaculation (PME) is labelled when there is persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on, or shortly after penetration and before the person wishes it. The partner's satisfaction is also taken into account.

Anyhow, if you feel that you have problem of premature ejaculation (keeping in mind the above facts), there are drugs which work very effectively for this condition.

Drugs like dapoxetine (prescription drug) are used effectively for PME.

There are some home remedies as well, for PME:
1. Chewing 3-4 cloves of raw garlic can help.
2. Vitamin supplements containing vitamin E and C are also helpful.
3. Practice kegel's exercise to strengthen pelvic floor muscles.

Some behavioral techniques like 'Start-stop technique' and 'squeeze technique' can be practiced at the time of intercourse to delay ejaculation.
(The details are easily available online).

Hope this helps.

Feel free to discuss further if you have more doubts.

I wish you well.

Take care.
Thanks.
Dr. Shubham Mehta, MD.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (2 hours later)

Thank you Sir
My next question is, what are some of the ways to take precaution against prostate or bladder cancer?

I see people got into this by smoking and alcholhol. Fortunately i dont smoke or drink. Any other precautions?

Mr XXXXXXX

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (25 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
low fat diet and others.

Detailed Answer:
You are welcome.

For prevention of prostate or bladder cancer:
1. Take low-fat diet.
2. Increase green leafy vegetables and fruits in your diet.
3. Omega-3 fatty acid supplements help to reduce risk of prostate cancer.
4. Maintain a healthy weight. Exercises for 30 minutes daily help in this.
5. If you have family history of such cancer, visit your doctor for annual digital rectal examination.

It great that you do not smoke and drink alcohol. I really appreciate it.

And I hope you find my suggestions helpful.

You are welcome if you have more queries.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vinay Bhardwaj

Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (10 hours later)

THANKS SO MUCH SIR.

Sir how many glasses of water is good to drink per day like a size of a regular home type lassi glass drink

Also Sir, i am pretty embarrased to say, in reference to my previous query on masturbation you said that 2 times is ok per week but some weeks i do almost 5 days a week. is it harmful? i am not married and no girl friend

Mr XXXXXXX

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (25 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
8-10 glasses of water in a day.

Detailed Answer:
You are welcome.

Atleast 8-10 glasses of water must be consumed in a day.

Masturbation done in any frequency is never harmful. Excessive masturbation can sometime cause body fatigue. No potential serious adverse effects.

Its ok to do 5 times a week. Frequency depends on sexual urges. Its just that you might feel fatigued with this.

There is nothing to feel embarassed in this.

Donot worry.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Shanthi.E

Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (7 hours later)

Sir thanks much again.
Another embarrasing question that some of my XXXXXXX friends sometimes discuss in USA is the size of our penis and sometimes its below average amongst few of my friends.
I have discussed this issue with an urologist and he frankly said dont do any surgery as most surgeries are unsuccesful .
I heard for women size does matter but also heard if you have one female partner her vagina automatically adjust to the size of the penis of her male matter. is it true?
Also is there any home remeidies to make a penis size larger? there are so many pills outside but also feel the danger of its side effects. Please advise.

Mr XXXXXXX

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
no drug can increase penile size.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Mr. XXXXXXX
Iam glad that you found my suggestions helpful.

There are no drugs which increase size of penis. You may find many drugs claiming to be effective for increasing the penile size. But DO NOT falls for these claims.
Also, there are no home remedies for it.

There might be some cosmetic surgeries as well but I would not suggest you to go for it. They might do more harm than good.

More then penile size, the satisfaction of both partners matter. Whatever your friends say, believe only what is biologically true.

Thats true. If you have one female partner, she will adjust to your size.

Do not worry.

Thanks.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Pradeep Vitta