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What Are The Chances Of Pregnancy Through Non-penetrative Sexual Activity?
Question: we got intimate on 22nd July(fully clothed)..i rubbed her bare vulva with fingers(unnoticeable amount of dry precum,just adjusted the shaft of my penis by inserting hand through my pants and hence may have got unnoticeable amount of precum(more like spot of precum,that i have on my fingers) fingers by inserting hand through her underwear,didnt finger..i didnt insert finger inside her vagina nor we did penetrative intercourse,never touched vagina vulva with penis.This happened on 38th day of cycle.3 days later ie 25th July she got her period with light flow for 1st day,2nd and 3 rd day with medium flow and finally went away on 28th July(25-28 July),blood clots were seen(she had irregular cycle,she had PCOD,she was under medications few months back,after that her cycle length was 34-37,bt she had period every time after taking medications,stopped medications).on 31st July(3days after her period ended) she said a little bit of rusty brown discharge on her underwear just once..she said she had this sometimes in earlier cycles too(may be old blood of period due to reduced flow during period)..on the 26th July she tested for preganews test and it came negative..on 29th July,she tested negative urine test again.on 3rd August she got negative,on 7th August she got negative urine test result.last month period was from 15th XXXXXXX to 18th June(normal flow),,11th May to 14th may(medium flow period like this period)..she has irregular flows of period bt constant period length of 34-37..is she pregnant?plz reply fast doctor..its urgent
Brief Answer:
she is not pregnant...relax
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for the query to hcm,
No she is not pregnant at all as after your sexual encounter, she had her menses in flow and hence it confirms that she is not pregnant. The menses would have been missed if she would have turned pregnant after fingering( which you assumed was pre cum stained).
The pregnancy test as of now is still negative and that further confirms her non pregnant state. Pos is a cause of delayed menses in her case but it is definitely not pregnancy for sure at present.
Please don't worry dear, she is pregnancy safe.
Regards
she is not pregnant...relax
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for the query to hcm,
No she is not pregnant at all as after your sexual encounter, she had her menses in flow and hence it confirms that she is not pregnant. The menses would have been missed if she would have turned pregnant after fingering( which you assumed was pre cum stained).
The pregnancy test as of now is still negative and that further confirms her non pregnant state. Pos is a cause of delayed menses in her case but it is definitely not pregnancy for sure at present.
Please don't worry dear, she is pregnancy safe.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Sir i never fingered her..may have just rubbed her vulva with unnoticeable amount of dry precum that too for 5-6 secs..never inserted finger inside her vagina nor touched vagina or vulva with penis. last to last month period 11-14 May(flow like this time,medium flow),last period date 15-18 June(normal flow)..we did this on 38th day of her cycle..she has 34-37 days length..we did this in safe time sir?i am actually concerned about the reduced flow and the slight rusty brown discharge once..so did urine test even after 16 days of the incident and still got negative result..so i shd be relaxed,isnt it sir?i was so much tensed..sir kindly answer..
Brief Answer:
no she is not pregnant...for sure.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Yes you should be completely relaxed as she is not pregnant for sure. As she had her menses , immaterial if her flow was less, it implies that she is not pregnant and further confirmed by a negative urine pregnancy test.
The sexual intimacy act happened in the last days of her cycle when ovum would have already self dissolute and practically it was a safe period and hence all the more reason for no pregnancy.
So you should completely relax and not worry about it at all. I understand it would have been really stressful for you but in your case she is pregnancy safe.
Regards
no she is not pregnant...for sure.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Yes you should be completely relaxed as she is not pregnant for sure. As she had her menses , immaterial if her flow was less, it implies that she is not pregnant and further confirmed by a negative urine pregnancy test.
The sexual intimacy act happened in the last days of her cycle when ovum would have already self dissolute and practically it was a safe period and hence all the more reason for no pregnancy.
So you should completely relax and not worry about it at all. I understand it would have been really stressful for you but in your case she is pregnancy safe.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
sir thanx for ur assurance..is their any need to repeat the urine test?lastest we did HPT on 7th August(16 days after the incident) and got negative with preganews kit..actually many ppl have said there is no chance of getting pregnant with this act and moreover as she has had her period even if it was with reduced flow for 4 days,there is no chance..still i got scared and suffered from deep stress and anxiety for the last 18 days though didnt engage myself in any intercourse..i am actually very nervous and tensed thats why..sir what about the slight brown discharge once she saw in her underwear?sir so u are assuring me that there is no chance of pregnancy as of now cz she has had her period though with less flow if we dont engage in any sexual activity after that incident?sir isnt it?sir what are safe days of cycle length 34-37?sir kindly answer..plz sir..
Brief Answer:
answered
Detailed Answer:
the slight brown discharge in a known case of pos is due to irregular shedding which can occur and often breakthrough bleeding which is not significant. Its normal to be seen in cases of pcos and even under cases of stress induced hormonal imbalance.
As you have not been involved in any sexual activity after that and still the HPT is negative then you are more than sure that she is not pregnant.
The safe days usually start in a 34-36 day cycle from day 2 to day 15 of her cycle, but in pos there are chances of delayed ovulation as well , so best time is day 2-day 12. which can be termed as safe period prior to likely ovulation.
regards
answered
Detailed Answer:
the slight brown discharge in a known case of pos is due to irregular shedding which can occur and often breakthrough bleeding which is not significant. Its normal to be seen in cases of pcos and even under cases of stress induced hormonal imbalance.
As you have not been involved in any sexual activity after that and still the HPT is negative then you are more than sure that she is not pregnant.
The safe days usually start in a 34-36 day cycle from day 2 to day 15 of her cycle, but in pos there are chances of delayed ovulation as well , so best time is day 2-day 12. which can be termed as safe period prior to likely ovulation.
regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
thanku sir..sir prior to period how many days are safe for 34-37 days cycle?sir without intercourse pregnancy can happen?..sir do i need to test HPT again or shd i relax completely that preganancy cannot occur after the period as we didint engage in any sexual activity after period commenced ie post 25th July?sir sorry for bothering u so much..i was tensed thats why i am asking the same question again..sorry sir..kindly reply..thanx a lot..:)
sir as per my knowledge ovulation occurs 14 days prior to period..it is roundly about 12-16 days before period commences..that means if one engages in intercourse 4 days prior ovulation and 2 days post ovulation,that is not safe..isn't it?..As my gf has 34-37 days cycle length that means ovulation is likely to occur around day 23 or 25 not late than that..if ovulation occurs late period wl also come late..so as per my knowledge day 20 to day 26 are not safe for intercourse..and ovum lives for not more than 48 hrs..so taking it into account,day 20-day 26 are not safe..1 week prior period is safe,is it sir?
sir as per my knowledge ovulation occurs 14 days prior to period..it is roundly about 12-16 days before period commences..that means if one engages in intercourse 4 days prior ovulation and 2 days post ovulation,that is not safe..isn't it?..As my gf has 34-37 days cycle length that means ovulation is likely to occur around day 23 or 25 not late than that..if ovulation occurs late period wl also come late..so as per my knowledge day 20 to day 26 are not safe for intercourse..and ovum lives for not more than 48 hrs..so taking it into account,day 20-day 26 are not safe..1 week prior period is safe,is it sir?
Brief Answer:
answered.
Detailed Answer:
Theoritically you are right yes.but the problem with pcos is that there are chances od delayed ovulation and it cannot be predicted unless you had a ovulation kit being used for determining ovulation in pvos case. With delayed menses ,cycle of 34 to 37 days where the androgen levels are higher ovulation tend to be delayed so the follicular phase is increased and not the luteal phase.
So as it is day 28 to day 34 becomes safe period. So chances of pregnancy is low anyhow.
regards
answered.
Detailed Answer:
Theoritically you are right yes.but the problem with pcos is that there are chances od delayed ovulation and it cannot be predicted unless you had a ovulation kit being used for determining ovulation in pvos case. With delayed menses ,cycle of 34 to 37 days where the androgen levels are higher ovulation tend to be delayed so the follicular phase is increased and not the luteal phase.
So as it is day 28 to day 34 becomes safe period. So chances of pregnancy is low anyhow.
regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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