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What Are The Chances Of Pregnancy Through Non Penetrative Sexual Activity?

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Posted on Mon, 7 Sep 2015
Question: we got intimate on 22nd July..no genital rubbing,no fingering,no intercourse..may be i have just touched my penis precum filled with my middle finger and rubbed her outside bare vagina with miniscule amount of precum(if any,i cant recall it may or may not be,bt definetly not a handful of precum)..no ejaculation on vagina or somewhere near it.11th to 14th May was her period with light and medium flow,15th XXXXXXX to 18th XXXXXXX was her period with normal flow..on 25th July her period came with light flow,on 26th with medium flow and blood clots,from 27th July eve it again went light and finally gone away on 28th July.on 31st July she had a little bit of rusty brown discharge on her underwear once(she said she had it in some of her earlier cycles too,may be old blood of period)..she had PCOS,was taking medications for the same,after that her period length is 34-37 days,stopped medications..period length is more or less constant bt period flow varies for her(sometimes normal and sometimes light)..on May period she got same period flow like this time(we were not sexually active at that time)..she did HPT with preganews test a no of times with the result being negative,latest HPT was done on 7th August with the result being negative which is after 16 days from the sexual intimacy ie 22nd July..we had the sexual intimacy act on her 38th day of the cycle..wasnt it safe?..she got period after 3 days..mam is she pregnant?plz answer mam,am stressed over 18 days..kindly answer mam..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (14 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Pregnancy not possible

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXX, good to talk to you again.
I completely understand your anxiety about this issue and the uncertainty in your mind and i will be happy if I'm able to give you relief from that.
Female body has a cycle of egg maturation and rupture and that middle of the cycle at the time of egg release inti the uterus cycle when councites with sexual activity leads to pregnancy.
But in your case you had sex with your girl on the finishing end of the cycle when there was no egg so there cannot be pregnancy irrespective of the sperm presence at the site of egg release.
Now coming to the second part there is no chance that your sperms get to reach her vagina as
- she was wearing her underwear
- there was no Penetration
- she is a virgin
- you didn't ejaculate near her private parts
- she got her periods immediately after few days of the coital activity
So all these points make it impossible for the pregnancy to occur.
Relax and stop worrying about it.
Take care.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (25 minutes later)
mam we didnot do sex at all..just may have rubbed outer vagina,never went inside the vaginal canal..didnot finger,nor intercourse..i am stressed for her reduced flow during period and slight brown discharge..mam help me..i am in deep mental stress..latest HPT was done on 7th August with negative result which is 16 days after the incident..mam was the bleeding of her a period or anything else?i am concerned due to reduced flow though she had this in some of her earlier cycles too..mam are u assuring that there is no need to panic at all..is there any need to repeat HPT tomorrow ie 14th August which is 23 days after the incident?mam what if i rubbed her bare vulva with miniscule amount of precum?does it cause any risk?..plz mam answer..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (17 hours later)
Brief Answer:
No chance at all

Detailed Answer:
No dear I'm assuring you that there is nothing to worry and no need to do a repeat test at all.
The reduced flow in her periods must be a common occurrence for her as she has PCOD and it will continue like this.
There is no need to worry as precum had negligible amount of sperms and they have to be deposited inside vagina via penis or fingers to be effective.
So don't panic and just relax.
Everything is fine.
I assure you and want you to stop worrying at all.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vinay Bhardwaj
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (28 minutes later)
ok mam thanx a lot..thanx a ton for resting my mind..wl do HPT with preganews the last time tomorrow(23 days after the incident) and wl inform u mam just for peace of mind..mam so 22nd July incident wl not cause any threat to this cycle(25th July period cycle) and the coming cycles unless we again engage in sexual activity,isn't it mam?.mam i was concerned with the reduced flow during period and thought it cd be implantation bleeding so took several HPT's with preganews kit and got negative result as i came to know after implantation bleeding HPT is positive and after menstrual period HPT is negative..so not an issue that the bleeding from 25-28th July was implantation,isn't it mam?thanx a lot..kindly answer these..i wl inform u about tomorrows HPT result,it wl be negative,mam?thanx a lot for dealing with such a weak hearted guy..thanx mam..:)..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (22 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Safe from pregnancy

Detailed Answer:
You are most welcome dear.
Yes this cycle is safe from the 22nd July incident.
No effect is going to happen.
Relax and don't panic.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (8 minutes later)
mam took the preganews test today with 2nd urine got negative result after 23 days also..mam is it mandatory to test with 1st urine?earlier we did test with 1st urine and got ngtv result after 16 days..mam and that bleeding from 25-28th July was period or implantation bleeding?plz clear my doubts mam as i heard that after implantation bleeding HPT is positive and after menstrual bleeding HPT is negative..plz mam kindly answer these questions..i wont bother u anymore..kindly answer these..plz mam..thanku..:)
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (17 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Nothing to worry

Detailed Answer:
No problem dear, you can discuss your doubt's with me anytime.
This negative result is very reassuring and confirms the non pregnant status.
Now nothing to worry
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (29 hours later)
Mam,today on 22nd day of this cycle she expierienced itching on vulva and after she itched bleeding from vagina..her usual cycle days are 32-34..today is 22nd day of her new cycle..mam why is this bleeding?now itching has stopped..bt bleeding is there,she is saying that before periods she feels like some sensation on her vagina and this time also she felt some sensation of sensitivity in her vagina for couple of days..mam why is this bleeding?we didnot engage in any sexual activity in this cycle..mam is it a sign of implantation bleeding?we didnot engage in any intimacy in this cycle..then why mam?i am stressed again..plz answer mam..her last period was on 25-28th July..we engaged in sexual intimacy act on 22nd July on 38th day of her previous cycle..last HPT was done yesterday which was after 23 days from 22nd July intimacy and got negative..mam plz answer..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (3 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Just because of PCOD and stress

Detailed Answer:
I understand your anxiety XXXXX there is nothing to worry.
This is mist likely either ovulation bleeding or her irregular menses because of PCOD status and also because of all the stress.
In case you are not believing all the negative HPT results then bHCG test done which if negative after 23 days of the intimacy will confirm her non pregnant status and then it will be a fact that the encounter on 22nd July didn't result in pregnancy at all.
So just for your peace of mind you can get bHCG blood test.
But in my opinion still there is no chance of pregnancy so nothing to worry.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (4 minutes later)
mam is there any need to do blood test?..we dont like to do it..is this bleeding her actual period?..she is saying that she has been feeling sensitiveness in her vagina for a couple of days,which she usually gets before periods..bt as her period length is 32-34,today is 22nd day of the cycle..thats why i am confused about the bleeding..kindly answer mam..is this bleeding her period or implantation bleeding?..she felt itchiness around vulva,so she itched,therafter she bled..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (4 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
no need to do blood test

Detailed Answer:
If the bleeding is from the site of itching and has stopped after that episode of itching then probably it was because of the local injury.
So wait till she gets full period like flow, in case she doesn't feel any flow now then it is confirmed that it was because of itching only
No need to go for a blood test as there is no chance of pregnancy, I asked you to get the test so as to relieve your anxiety.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (2 minutes later)
mam give an honest answer,can this be implantation bleeding?we didnot engage in any sexual activity post 22nd July,then 25-28th July her period came with light and medium flow bt with blood clots..23 days after the incidient HPT is negative..this is the 22nd day of the new cycle..without any sexual activity in this cycle,how can it be implatantion bleeding or pregnancy related bleeding?kindly answer mam in details..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (5 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Not an implantation bleeding

Detailed Answer:
No dear this cannot be implantation bleeding as there cannot be pregnancy as I have been telling you repeatedly that there was no egg in her body so there cannot be pregnancy and thus no need to worry.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (3 minutes later)
mam by any chance can this be her period which is earlier than usual time bcz of less flow in the last period?i am bothering u and i know u got fed up with me..mam can that earlier sexual act have an impact on this cycle or further cycles?can this bleeding be a period which is early than her usual time?
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (3 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Yes it can be her period

Detailed Answer:
Irregular cycles are a hallmark of PCOD and in her case this anxiety which you guys are having will definitely cause more damage to the regularity of her cycles.
This can be her period is just ovulation bleeding which again is common in PCOD females.
But definitely unrelated to pregnancy.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (3 days later)
Mam,thanx for the great help..
1)mam she have had the flow from 15th August to 18th August with light and medium flow and lots of blood clots and typical smell of blood she usually gets in periods..mam she soaked 4 pads in total for 4 days..so it is her period only and not anything else or related to pregnancy?
2)mam does period gets preponed sometimes?
3)Mam the day after the flow came ie 16th August she visited a homepathic doctor who gave her medicines earlier too when she had irregular cycles and PCOS and helped her to regularise cycles..that doctor gave her medicines on 16th August and asked her to take those after period gets over..he also told that sometimes periods get preponed due to mental and hormonal disbalance..so there is nothing to worry about it?
4)mam without any sexual intimacy in this cycle or further cycles could pregnancy occur or implantation bleedign takes place?
5)mam if her coming periods gets delayed or preponed with normal or light flow is it because of pcos and hormonal disturbance and not because of that 22nd July act?
6)Mam today after 28 days from the incident she took HPT with preganews and it tested negative with only 1 C line in the kit,so she is totally safe from pregnancy with that 22nd July act?
Mam kindly answer to these questions..thanku :)
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (19 hours later)
Brief Answer:
nothing to worry now

Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, very happy to know that she got her period again.
So all the worries about pregnancy are over now and nothing to woody.
It is common to have deranged periods due to stress so just relax now
The intimacy of 22ns July has no effect on her now and thus until you guys indulge in sexual activity again there is no risk of pregnancy from that event.
Take care
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (20 minutes later)
thanku mam for reassurance..its been a strainous 28 days for me..mam kindly answer these questions in details plz for better understanding of me
1)the presence of blood clots in the flow and the negative HPT's done after the flow stopped indicates that both the flow on 25th-28th July and 15th-18th August is her Periods only and not at all related to pregnancy related bleeding or implantation spotting etc?
2)Mam if those flows had been related to pregnancy to or implantation,it wd have showed positive,isn't it mam?Bt it showed negative..
3)Mam as per my knowledge implantation bleeding doesnot have blood clots and is only just a few spotting of blood for 1-2 days maximum,whereas menstrual period has blood clots and is more in flow XXXXXXX implantationbleeding..isn't it mam?
4)Just for interest,if a couple were hugging naked and while doing so precum rubs the external genetilia can it cause pregnancy?
5)Mam if her coming periods gets preponed or postponed with light or normal flow is it because of PCOS or hormonal disturbance and not at all related to the 22nd July act?
6)Mam thanx for the great help..thanx for sparing ur valueable time and answering my stupid questions..
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (7 hours later)
Brief Answer:
No chance of pregnancy

Detailed Answer:
Pregnancy test is always positive in cases with implantation bleeding and yes you are absolutely right that implantation bleeding has no clots definitely.
She has got her periods twice after the intimacy so pregnancy is ruled out.
Precum rubbing on external genitalia cannot cause pregnancy in a virgin so don't worry about precum at all.
There is absolutely no risk of pregnancy so don't panic at all.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (6 minutes later)
ok mam thanx a lot..
1)mam if her coming periods gets preponed or postponed with light or normal flow,it is only because of PCOS and hormonal imbalance and not at all related to pregnancy or 22nd July activity?.
2)Mam without any sexual activity in a cycle can pregnancy or implantation bleeding occur from previous encounters?
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (10 hours later)
Brief Answer:
No chance of pregnancy

Detailed Answer:
No dear, if you guys don't indulge in sexual activity now then no risk of pregnancy.
If at all in future her periods get deranged then only PCOD has to be blamed.
Now the incident on 22nd July has no effect on her periods in future.
No risk of pregnancy at all.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Manisha Jain (4 hours later)
ok thanx mam..thanx for reassuring me..so she wont get pregnant unless we repeat any further sexual activity..thanx mam..good day..:)
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Answered by Dr. Manisha Jain (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
No risk of pregnancy now

Detailed Answer:
Yes dear, you guys are free from the risk of pregnancy because of the sexual activity on 22nd July unless you indulge in sexual activity again.
So take care in future and in case you need any advise please feel free to ask anytime.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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What Are The Chances Of Pregnancy Through Non Penetrative Sexual Activity?

Brief Answer: Pregnancy not possible Detailed Answer: Hello XXXXX, good to talk to you again. I completely understand your anxiety about this issue and the uncertainty in your mind and i will be happy if I'm able to give you relief from that. Female body has a cycle of egg maturation and rupture and that middle of the cycle at the time of egg release inti the uterus cycle when councites with sexual activity leads to pregnancy. But in your case you had sex with your girl on the finishing end of the cycle when there was no egg so there cannot be pregnancy irrespective of the sperm presence at the site of egg release. Now coming to the second part there is no chance that your sperms get to reach her vagina as - she was wearing her underwear - there was no Penetration - she is a virgin - you didn't ejaculate near her private parts - she got her periods immediately after few days of the coital activity So all these points make it impossible for the pregnancy to occur. Relax and stop worrying about it. Take care.