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What Are The Risks Of Developing HIV Post A Non-penetrative Sexual Activity?
Question: Dear Sir / Madam
I have done a stupid thing in my life . I went to a soapy massage parlour in Bangkok last week, the lady was nude I don't know about her std status . I was also nude she poured some soapy water and detoil on my body she rubed my back side of my body and rubed her ass with my ass her pussy touched my ass when she rubed my front part I asked her to put me a condom . then she put my penis middle for her breast and massaged me then I climaxed inside condom after that I cleaned it with water . i have not involved in vaginal ,anal sex and no kissing and no hand job . I scared will I get std or hiv from this act please help me .
I have done a stupid thing in my life . I went to a soapy massage parlour in Bangkok last week, the lady was nude I don't know about her std status . I was also nude she poured some soapy water and detoil on my body she rubed my back side of my body and rubed her ass with my ass her pussy touched my ass when she rubed my front part I asked her to put me a condom . then she put my penis middle for her breast and massaged me then I climaxed inside condom after that I cleaned it with water . i have not involved in vaginal ,anal sex and no kissing and no hand job . I scared will I get std or hiv from this act please help me .
Brief Answer:
Risk for HIv is very less.
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I can certainly understand your concerns.
Since there is no exchange of sexual fluids between you two, the risk of acquiring HIV is extremely remote.
But having said that , you seem to engage in high risk sexual behavior, which can make you susceptible to other STD's.I advice you can abstain from such behaviours.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you
Risk for HIv is very less.
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I can certainly understand your concerns.
Since there is no exchange of sexual fluids between you two, the risk of acquiring HIV is extremely remote.
But having said that , you seem to engage in high risk sexual behavior, which can make you susceptible to other STD's.I advice you can abstain from such behaviours.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks for your reply .I did not had any sex only massage will get std and HIV from that . did i need to do any test . Its true if I do DNA proviral pcr test after ten days it will give me a accurate result wether I need to do any test. I'm confused some Dr are telling since there is no penetrative sex or oral sex no need to worry
Brief Answer:
Risk of HIV is almost NIL
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I apologize for the delayed response owning to my work schedule.
Since there is no penetrative sex or exchange of sexual fluids, the risk of acquiring HIV is almost NIL.
You need not worry about it.
Yes, PCR can detect HIV with 10 days or even before.
But in view , I think you don't require a test for the same , considering your history.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you
Risk of HIV is almost NIL
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I apologize for the delayed response owning to my work schedule.
Since there is no penetrative sex or exchange of sexual fluids, the risk of acquiring HIV is almost NIL.
You need not worry about it.
Yes, PCR can detect HIV with 10 days or even before.
But in view , I think you don't require a test for the same , considering your history.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks for your reply sir . I have some doubts
1. Almost no risk means what
2. No need to do any test right. Since planning to get married im concerned .
3. Since we both where nude . she rubbed her and pussy and ass to my ass and leg . her pussy touched my ass and leg any risk.
4. If I want to do pcr when I need to it should be RNA or DNA pcr. Other std will test I need to do
5. Only she put my penis in between her breast and massaged no oral or penetrative sex so no need for test plz help
1. Almost no risk means what
2. No need to do any test right. Since planning to get married im concerned .
3. Since we both where nude . she rubbed her and pussy and ass to my ass and leg . her pussy touched my ass and leg any risk.
4. If I want to do pcr when I need to it should be RNA or DNA pcr. Other std will test I need to do
5. Only she put my penis in between her breast and massaged no oral or penetrative sex so no need for test plz help
Brief Answer:
Practically ZERO risk of transmission.
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I can certainly understand your concerns.
I apologize for the delayed response owing to my work schedule.
Almost No risk means -Practically zero risk.
No need for testing at the moment as earlier stated.
Rubbing against your body in the way you described will not lead to transmission of virus.Practically , HIV requires penetrative sex involving exchange of body fluids.So do not worry about it.
If you still have doubt, it's good to go for hiv testing.
RT-PCR is the standard test which is required to check for the presence of HIV nucleic acids.RT Stands for Reverse transcriptase.Just order the test as RT-PCR for HIV at your lab, they will understand it and offer you the services.This is the standard confirmatory test.Results will be out in 24-36 hrs.
Do not toil hard in hesitancy.In the absence of penetrative sex, the risk of HIV is zero.Get tested only to remove your fear and anxiety.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you.
Practically ZERO risk of transmission.
Detailed Answer:
Hello, Sir.
I can certainly understand your concerns.
I apologize for the delayed response owing to my work schedule.
Almost No risk means -Practically zero risk.
No need for testing at the moment as earlier stated.
Rubbing against your body in the way you described will not lead to transmission of virus.Practically , HIV requires penetrative sex involving exchange of body fluids.So do not worry about it.
If you still have doubt, it's good to go for hiv testing.
RT-PCR is the standard test which is required to check for the presence of HIV nucleic acids.RT Stands for Reverse transcriptase.Just order the test as RT-PCR for HIV at your lab, they will understand it and offer you the services.This is the standard confirmatory test.Results will be out in 24-36 hrs.
Do not toil hard in hesitancy.In the absence of penetrative sex, the risk of HIV is zero.Get tested only to remove your fear and anxiety.
Post your further queries if any.
Thank you.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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