
What Causes Difficulty In Achieving An Orgasm During Sexual Intercourse?

Wake up!
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Thanks for asking on HealthcareMagic.
I have gone carefully through your query and completely understand your concerns. The issue is that you need to come back to reality. The movies that you have been watching, feature professionals. I am quite sure that you have not married a professional porn star. Unless that is the case, you are bound to be disillusioned. Imagine seeing a film fight sequence. Have you ever seen such a fight in real life? Have you ever seen real life people do stuff that you see people do in films? So, learn to distinguish reality from fantasy. You are living in a fantasy world and therefore are unable to focus on real-life situations.
You need to realize that the sexual act might be important, but there is much more to it. The personal sense of attachment and involvement is important. Gentle fondling of each other leads to arousal. This definitely involves deep psychological involvement and you need to invest here. Prolonged foreplay is the key to a good sexual life.
Viagra will not solve your problem. Viagra does not have any role in shaping the mind. Body does not act without the mind.
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The power lies within your mind.
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It is good to hear back from you. The XXXXXXX system of marriage is based on dedication. I do not know any mind exercises that make you 'dedicated'. You just need to grow that for your wife. You need to understand that she is all you have got. Human beings have endless potentials. She has them and so do you. So, you need to get involved, get attached and need to try to understand each other. You need to learn to respect and value her. It is from here the rest would emanate.
If you still need assistance, it would be a good idea to visit a psychologist. He would be able to analyse your case and offer specific tips that will help you to make your mind up.
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