Brief Answer:
She needs to be reviewed thoroughly.
Detailed Answer:
Hi and thank you so much for following up with me.
I believe you when you say your deepest thought is that her actions are not deliberate. However, I would want you to get her re-evaluated fully. You mentioned she has
somatoform disorder which is exactly reporting symptoms that are simply not backed by examination findings. It is in this same light that munchausen comes in as a likely possibility. I will suggest that you get her complete evaluated again and make sure there is nothing that can explain this. But if the somatoform disorders are still confirmed, then I will stick with my initial answer. If it is not confirmed any longer, then re-evaluating will be a very good option to consider.
Dementia, of which Alzheimer is the most common cause, has to do with
memory loss. These are persons who are unable to relate to their past or forget so much about their day to day living and environment. For example, missing the way to the market, forgetting the number of kids they have, their names, etc. it has nothing to do with frequent falls. The core of diagnosis is about memory loss but unfortunately, you have not reported any such symptoms.
I will suggest that you get her evaluated by at least 2 specialists. Please, strongly consider to see a
neurologist and a
psychiatrist in this order. if the neurologist fails to identify any possible case, then the psychiatrist would try to put the symptoms together and make sense out of them.
It never hurts showing a little more concern. Just try it and see if there is any improvement in her falls. If not, then she may not just realise what is happening to her. For the mean time, try and prevent falls as much as possible o avoid huge consequences.
I wish you well and hope she gets to find some help pretty soon.
Feel free to ask for more information if need be.
Dr. Ditah, MD