Question: Last week I was very sick with
nausea and jabbing pains in my right upper quadrant. I thought it was my
gallbladder, but when I went to the ER, the xray showed it was a 9mm
kidney stone. The ER doctor told me it was probably too big to pass, but I should have it removed. He referred me to a
urologist, whom I saw yesterday. The new xray shows that the stone has worked its way into the
ureter. The urologist chose to treat it with Tramsulosin. He explained that it could have trouble passing from the ureter into the bladder because of its size, but we would "deal with that if and when the time comes." In the meantime, I am not in excrutiating pain, just some jabbing pain here and there. I don't have a
fever but I am a little bit nauseated and I am exhausted. The doctor said this stone could take a month to pass. I don't want to feel this way for a month, plus, I have been very anxious since I talked to the doctor because my husband had a kidney stone and it was not a pretty sight. My question is whether or not it would be appropriate (and medically sound) to ask the doctor to just go ahead and remove the stone so I can start feeling well again and get on with my life; plus I don't want to always worry about having problems passing this thing like my husband did.