Brief Answer:
I would be happy to help...
Detailed Answer:
Okay, based on what you are saying, I am going to simplify what you are saying. But first let me
stress how important it is for you to get in to see a doctor. It appears based on your IP address that you live in the USA, and there is not excuse for you not to sign up for a health care plan that is readily available to you. Here are the things you are describing:
1. You have been treated for Chlamydia - given that you have never had an exam, then it is because a former partner was seen, diagnosed, and identified you as a partner that needed to be treated. Treatment is not 100%, so you MUST go in to have cultures of your
cervix to make sure you are clear. This is also important to check for another infection called Gonorrhea
2. Your discharge sounds like an infection called BV - this can only be treated with a prescription - another reason to sign up for health insurance. This is a common infection that is often described as an odorous discharge that is worse after unprotected intercourse
3. The
pelvic pain and pain with intercourse could be related to
pelvic infection, adhesions related to prior pelvic infection,
endometriosis, etc. This needs to be evaluated by an OB/GYN with an exam and an
ultrasound - another reason to get health insurance
4. You have what sounds like external genital
warts - these should be evaluated and treated because sometimes they can lead to pre-cancerous changes of the skin
Additional thoughts:
1. The daily douching and feminine washes are DEFINITELY make the problem worse - this is a great way to kill the normal bacteria and set you up for recurrent vaginal infections. Stop doing this and it will help.
2. Stop having your husband "check you". He is not a substitute for a Professional opinion.
With regard to the comment that you cannot afford health insurance: if you are low-income, then health plans off of the new exchange are probably available to you at little or no cost. If you absolutely have no where else to turn, then make an appointment at a Planned Parenthood - they are available to evaluate and treat you for everything that I talked about above.