Question: I am a 40 year old female who has not had sex since 2 weeks before my daughter was born. She is over 7 now. I recently (a little over a week ago) started having sex again after over 7 years. He is much lengthier than the man who I was married to for 10 years was, and I always feel him hit my cervix. We have had sex a total of 4 times. 1st time, minimal spotting. And that was gone by next night, 2nd time, the same. The 3rd time, and 4th (both on same night ) was different. I am having more than just a little bit of spotting. This time I bled on the sheets, and the next 2 days it was more than just a little spotting.I would still call it spotting but it is heavier spotting, not like having a menstrual cycle, way less than that, but more than the small amount of spotting the first 2 times we had sex. I haven't had sex since that time , which was 3 days ago. I am still spotting but much less. I am free and clear of any STDs and we used condoms every time. I have a tilted cervix??? I was told something along those lines many years ago, not sure if that has to do with it. Could him being so lengthy be what is causing this bleeding?

I was tested for STDs(at my request) when I found out I was pregnant and then again after I gave birth because I had sex with me then husband 2 weeks before giving birth. Since giving birth I have had ZERO sex or anything sex related, not even kissing for over 7 years. this has been the first person I have been with since before she was born all those years ago. I get my pap and exam every year and they always have done a visual inspection while there for my yearly. I am due for my next yearly on Thursday and have the appointment made, just hoping to see if I could get a opinion before then so I don't freak out for the next 2 and a half days. If a lesion, what would that be caused by? Or could it be literally just his size and hitting the cervix? Is it possible to tear your cervix?

thank you!