What Causes Tingling In Arms And Fingers?
Mastoid not the cause, spinal changes could be related to tingling.
Detailed Answer:
I read your question carefully and I understand your concern.
Regarding the mastoid findings I do not believe they are the cause of lack of balance and fogginess. It could be related to the pressure and pain in the ear, as mastoiditis is usually a middle ear infection complication and the pressure and pain could have been in the setting of a middle ear infection. It shouldn't affect balance though, unless it's a severe case with brain involvement which is excluded by MRI and lack of other signs.
As for the question of whether you should have been told of your neck changes, yes I believe you should have been informed. I suppose your neurologists intentions were good, perhaps he didn't want you to panic, most people start to have some degenerative changes of the spine as years go by. Also I assume he thinks the distribution of your neck symptoms doesn't correlate with those findings.
Whether these mild to moderate changes can be responsible for your signs is a little hard to say. Nerve root compression can certainly cause those symptoms but to be sure whether that is the case, the distribution of the sensory changes (tingling and numbness) should correlate with the territory covered by the compressed nerve root (also changes in deep tendon reflexes and muscle strength can be present).
As I said I am assuming that by saying MRI was normal the neurologist didn't think the MRI findings correlated with his neurological exam.
If in doubt nerve conduction studies could help in determining whether there is nerve root involvement (or other peripheral nerves).
I remain at your disposal for further question.