Hello, I am a guy living in Belgium. Here it is my question: I had sex with a guy on 31 August. I was the top and I used a condom. The penetration was very superficial. We stop immediately because it was hurting him. I received unprotected oral sex from him and I also received protected oral sex from him (but his mouth touched the condom right after the superficial penetration occurred). Then we went on with kissing and oral sex (I was always the receptive partner). Then he ejaculated over me and I guess it might have happened right on my genital area. Maybe on my penis. I don t know. That was it. Then I had protected vaginal sex with a sex worker in Belgium. This happened on 11 October. That was it. Around mid November, I started having strange symptoms like: light flu, fatigue, muscular pain, lynfonodes of the neck were hurting, sense of dizziness. These symptoms went on more or less for 5 weeks. I went to the local HIV center and they told me that the HIV test was not necessary because what I did was not to be considered as risky . I got tested anyway with a normal test I guess (the one which looks for antibodies only). I did the test on the 87th day from the first episode and on the 45th day from the second one. The test was negative. However, the liver s values were higher than normal, lynfonodes of the neck were still a bit swollen and the white cells were slightly higher. Now, after the Christmas break (during which I was feeling alright) I still have some symptoms like light flu, cough, lynfonodes a bit hurting and slightly swollen, fatigue, sore throat, dizziness. Can all these put together be symptoms of HIV? Would it be possible, given the factual description I gave you? Can it be that I did the HIV test (antibodies) too early? Please, let me know what you think about this. Thanks a lot Best wishes