Do I have to be relaxed to have an orgasm? Because when I'm having sex and I'm about to orgasm, I tense up and then the feeling goes away. But when I'm by myself I'm more relaxed and I can have an orgasm. No immature or rude answers please, this is a serious question!
I'm 18 by the way.
I have read psychological journals on this issue....people who can orgasm through masturbation, but not through sex.
It's an issue of trust and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. You see, orgasm is about the loss of self-control. It's also about allowing yourself to look different, or to sound different.
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Can I Have An Orgasm ?
I have read psychological journals on this issue....people who can orgasm through masturbation, but not through sex. It s an issue of trust and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. You see, orgasm is about the loss of self-control. It s also about allowing yourself to look different, or to sound different.