so far two guys that gave me(a female) oral sex for the first time, without the dental dem, have told me that they felt sick the next day, he told me he felt weak, fatigue, couldnt eat, didnt want to smoke, stuff tasted funny... and the whole time he is saying this, im thinking, is it because of me?? i do not have a std according to the many doctors i have seen and had blood test ran for all stds. before he gave oral, we had sex many times without a condom and he was fine. and to be honest, i ben having the same sympthoms he has for two years going over now, because im extremely underweight, i used to love food, but i dont have appetite for anything no more. Or, when I do eat, i can only take so many bites, wen before I was a human food processor.. now i only eat to survive. i have a constant mucus or think feeling in my throat. When I brush my teeth some mornings, I spend 20 mins gagging clear, sometimes yellow stuff out my throat. My tongue is extremely white some mornings, and dont matter how much I brush it, I wont go away. My lips slowly was taken over but white stuff that makes them feel puffy and dry, I bite it off and it comes back worse. My mouth is always dry. I have one bump on both sides of my mouth also, that forms thrust occasionally, but it doesnt hurt??? What kind a doctor do I talk to for this problem, because I always tell my gynecoligist, and they try to ensure me that im fine. NO IM NOT!! its sumthing there thats taking over me.. I used to have a fresh beautiful personality, but I constantly have this feeling that im sick on my mind. ifs its not killing physically, its killing my mentally.

SO i really want to know, Can you get some stds just orally? and not by penetration?
is there a specific std of the mouth??