can a hymen repair itself naturally? I'm 18 5'2 and 98lbs. and me and my bf have only had sex a handle full of times (each time causing small spotted bleeding and discomfort at start). He was my first, but there's alot of time i between each time we have sex, like 3 weeks. and the other day we had sex, he caused micro cuts in me from getting to big inside me to fast, the bleeding scared us. so he took a look and said that it looked like my hymen had been repairing itself ( him and his family all have medical backgrounds). he said it looked like a spider web going towards the sides.