Hello, i am a year old virgin man, as my first time experience yesterday of trying out sex with my girl friend was embarrassing. - I had erection, but as soon as i put on the condom (long love, contex) contains benzocaine), my penis went numb and flaccid. With every effort to arouse me was to no avail, i even had semen coming out of my penis without having a sense of it. I am pretty normal, i don t masturbate, drink alcohol or smoke. I am also athletic. I have since then googled every options, i guess it was the chemical in the condom (Benzocaine). kindly advice, as i am ashamed to try out again. thanks.