Hello
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as you have asked for virginity.
You are telling as your boyfriend has big fingers and also penetrate in your vagina.
at that time there are two possibilities.
1. If
hymen is intact and didn't hurt by finger, then it not pained or no bleed form vagina. This condition is understood as your virginity is intact.
2. May possible as your hymen ruptured in past, there is not necessary to have penetration or intercourse for hymen rupture. Sometime by cycling, sports, athletes and such physical exercise can also make hymen braking. In this condition you are also virgin but need to convince you future husband too.
So that from now if you want to intact your virginity, you need to take care as
1. DO not have sex
2. Do not enter anything in vagina like finger or anything else.
3. If you didn't had sex, there is no need to keep fear form this matter, deal confident with your husband.
Regards,
Dr. Nikul Patel
Ayurveda Sexologist
Ahmedbad, India
lifecareayurveda@gmail.com