My husband recieved oral gratification from a service in MD (twice in one week), he swears he wore a condom. When he can home approximately 1 week after the incident we had sex unprotected and both of us preformed oral sex upon each other then we had intercourse. Approximately 3 days later the back opening of my Vagina started to swell and burns when I urinate there were a few bumps that looked white but they have popped but the opening of my vagina towards the rectum still stings when I urinate. I went to the doctor yesterday and she said it looks like Herpes....I was horrified! But I've been doing a lot of reading on different forums and I don't know if she is right or not....could this be Gonorrhea? We did a blood test and she also swabbed the sore area of the opening of my vagina. She said she should have the results in 48 hours. Also, the back of my throat is tender and there are bumps that are appearing on the very back of my tongue (the part that is in the back of my throat). I am swallowing hard, it feels like a mild sore throat but I am scared and would like another opinion. Please Help!