hi my name is richie,am 47 ,i carnt get an erecion i dont have any feelin for sex lovin its like av no emosions at all ,i love my misses its just i carnt give her what she wants at the moment ,i want 2 , but if i do get bit off wind in it its very painfull so i just dont think about it, iv also bin told i have i mass on my kidney it adrenal sumthin so i dont no if thats what the problem is i would b greafull 4 any advice thankyou