Hi..
Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC..
I have gone through your query and can understand your concerns..
As per your complain if your husband has
cold sores and you are into intimate contact with him even during the outbreaks then you are at a higher risk of getting cold sores and the white head like bumps can be probably cold sores..
But you should get it confirmed by a Physician and after that only you should take anti viral medications like Valacyclovir..
I would therefore suggest you to consult an Infectious Medicine Specialist and get evaluated and a thorough clinical evaluation and investigations like blood tests like antigen antibody reaction, polymerase chain reaction and
blood culture can help in diagnosis and treated accordingly..
In case if
herpes virus 1 infection is the diagnosis causing cold sores then you will be advised a long course of
antiviral medications like Acyclovir, Valacyclovir along with topical antiviral
ointments..
Avoid intimate contact during outbreaks..
Your husband should also be investigated and treated accordingly..
Hope this information helps..
Thanks and regards.
Dr.Honey Nandwani Arora.