Dear user, Thank you for writing to us. I have gone through your question and understand your concerns to delay the ejaculation. Chronic prostatitis does not cause premature ejaculation. One can gain ejaculatory control over a period of time by practicing behavior methods as below, 1. Stop-start technique of behavior therapy. 2. Female on top with active role. 3. Double condom 4. Medicines like Fluoxetine 20 mg day or Paroxetine CR 25 mg per day. (To be taken under medical supervision only) 5. Pelvic muscle strengthening exercise. (As if try to hold urine intermittently during voiding) 6. Penile squeeze technique applied at the point of ejaculatory inevitability. 7. Applying a local anesthetic ointment to glans penis prior to penetration. 8. You should do masturbation before sex (at least 2 hours before). It will make seminal vesicles somewhat empty. So, at the time of sex, semen will take more time to come out. Practice above behavior method regularly with your partner. Discuss this freely with your partner without shame or guilt. Her co operation will help you a lot. It is not compulsory that a woman ‘should’ reach orgasm during intercourse (vaginal containment). She may achieve orgasm at the time of foreplay, after play, by any method including clitoral stimulation. What is important is the satisfaction, irrespective of how one derives it. Your partner can reach orgasm by stimulating other erogenous zones on her body. Wish you good sexual life ahead.