My boyfriend, who is not in the medical field, looked in my ears tonight with an otoscope and while my left eardrum sounded like it looks normal, mostly white, my right eardrum looks bright orange. The color could be coming from behind it he thought. I asked more to be sure it wasn't wax and he said it was the eardrum itself. Also there was a small dark spot up at the top of the eardrum that looked like a hole. I do have some pain but have had ear infections before and this definitely isn't that kind of extreme pain. Any ideas what this is?