Dear sir, I am 26 years and newly married. I have been married for a week only. During a week I have had sex only two times with my wife. But my penis doesn't erect properly when I want to have sex. If it erects harder it will again lose when I try to put on condom. So I have had sex without using condoms. Before getting married I was virgin but used to masturbate 3/4 times a week. I can also have pleasure to hug my wife. But when I want my penis harder, I can't do it on time. Yesterday I tried to make it hard after foreplaying with my wife. So I had to masturbate again but I ejaculated right away. I couldn't do anything further so I went to sleep. Today morning I did it though my penis was not hard properly. After 2/3 times friction I was about to ejaculate. So I put out my penis from vagina right away. please sir, tell me what to do to make my penis hard whenever I want. Should I use pill or not?
My next question is we don't want to get baby for several years. What happens if I have sex without using condom? To what extent is it safe to protect my wife from pregnancy?
Please help!!!!