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Depressed In Love, Unable To Marry Due To Family Problems. Attempted Suicide Once. How To Change Him ?
doctor i loved a person from 4 years but now my parents health condition is not good he is not understanding my problem he wants to make suicide my mom and his family members means his father and sister rejected due to caste problem same as my mom that to he is not having any job his mother expired already he attemted suicide once if my marriage happen means he makes a suicide telling in mails i offed my mobile am suffering a lot plz give suggestion how should i change him
Hi I understand your concern, thank for choosing HCM, first of all on your mobile, never ever ignore him, do not tell him any thing what your parents are telling you about him, he is in need of moral support even if you are not ready to marry with him,, but do not reveal this thing before him, just lingar the matter,even at your home,, ask your parents to delay the matter, ask them to give some time period, never say them that you are doing it for him, call him before he calls you, if possible have a personal meeting with him assure him that just dont give up the hope every thing will be alright, and if you feel that he is not convinced then take him for counseling or call to help line at the health centre,, take care of him Good luck
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Depressed In Love, Unable To Marry Due To Family Problems. Attempted Suicide Once. How To Change Him ?
Hi I understand your concern, thank for choosing HCM, first of all on your mobile, never ever ignore him, do not tell him any thing what your parents are telling you about him, he is in need of moral support even if you are not ready to marry with him,, but do not reveal this thing before him, just lingar the matter,even at your home,, ask your parents to delay the matter, ask them to give some time period, never say them that you are doing it for him, call him before he calls you, if possible have a personal meeting with him assure him that just dont give up the hope every thing will be alright, and if you feel that he is not convinced then take him for counseling or call to help line at the health centre,, take care of him Good luck