Dr. Grief, My husband and I were married for 25 yrs. we got back together 5 years ago. Things were going well and some things came out that happened during our marriage that I knew about but not all which sent me into a spiral! I have heard people tell me forgive and let it go...especially my pastor, I forgave it once, but it was worse but the lies {more lies and the truth} came out! This of course sent me into a tailspin after all these years! One of my drs put me on Lexapro, not for this but for other things...I'm a cancer patient also. He's of the mindset that happened a long time ago just let it go! I had an affair during our marriage that he knew nothing about I told him mainly to hurt him, no kids were iinvolved Sometimes this just comes down on me over and over! Would medications help this situation?!