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Difficulty Controlling Emotions After Marriage, Husband Shy For Public Affection. Have Huge Age Difference. Guide

Hello doctor. I m 21 and my husband is 50. I think it s about satisfaction. I was never attracted to men before like that, but after marriage it s hard for me to control my emotions. And he is even so shy to sit with me or to talk with me when his sisters are around. That s is so insulting for me too. Need ur help.
Tue, 12 Nov 2013
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You are 21 and he is 50 and there is significant age difference. You are not able to control your emotions and you remain sad due to that. He is able to indulging in public display of emotions. See due to the age difference he might be showing a little hesitation. Second reason that is possible is his introvert nature. A lot of individuals remain introvert in their life and this doesn't mean that he is not a good man. If you feel insulted due to this I would advise you to talk with him directly about your concerns and most likely he will understand your problem and will reassure you. If problem persists then consult a Psychiatrist for marriage counseling.

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Difficulty Controlling Emotions After Marriage, Husband Shy For Public Affection. Have Huge Age Difference. Guide

Hello Welcome to HCM You are 21 and he is 50 and there is significant age difference. You are not able to control your emotions and you remain sad due to that. He is able to indulging in public display of emotions. See due to the age difference he might be showing a little hesitation. Second reason that is possible is his introvert nature. A lot of individuals remain introvert in their life and this doesn t mean that he is not a good man. If you feel insulted due to this I would advise you to talk with him directly about your concerns and most likely he will understand your problem and will reassure you. If problem persists then consult a Psychiatrist for marriage counseling. Thanks