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Difficulty In Getting Erections, Pain In The Lower Abdomen During Intercourse. History Of Masturbation. Suggest
my erection hardeness became less i am doing Masturbation from along time , also after marriege when i start to enter my penis inside my wife it sags and i feel pain in the end of my Lower abdomen oever my penis ,
some times i feel my erections is not hard enough and when i look to other women erection is very week and some times not hard. befor marriege i fond my penis strong but short not like before in the twenties i get hard erections very fast.now it is difficult. my age now is 33 years
Hi ! It is a natural phenomena not to have immediate erection once you are doing frequent masturbation for a long time. As you are already married, I think your problem will be solved once you give it some break and then go for intercourse with your wife. Lower abdominal pain may not be related to this. Also if there is any kind of anxietyneurosis, that has to be taken care of . Please do not have any negative thinking during the act with your wife. Do regular exercises and have good diet. Go for a vacation with your wife. If nothing helps, then you may consult your family physician/ endocrinologist/ Psychiatrist for some pharmacological intervention if need be. Wish you good luck.
Hi Please remember, masturbation has nothing to do with your present problem. During a sex cycle of 20-30 minutes, it is normal to have little loss of hardness 2-3 times. If you keep focusing on the pleasure, it comes back but those who panic and either try too hard or leave, they develop problem. Pain may be due to voilant contractions of abdominal muscles during ejaculation and orgasm, though it is rare. Although your age is 33, the scene of erection changes with every decade of life. it is useless to compare your present erection with the one you had 15 years back. One needs more time and fondling, foreplay to get erection with advancing age still I would prefer you to check fasting blood sugar, morning 8AM free testosterone level , prolactin level and TSH
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Difficulty In Getting Erections, Pain In The Lower Abdomen During Intercourse. History Of Masturbation. Suggest
Hi ! It is a natural phenomena not to have immediate erection once you are doing frequent masturbation for a long time. As you are already married, I think your problem will be solved once you give it some break and then go for intercourse with your wife. Lower abdominal pain may not be related to this. Also if there is any kind of anxiety neurosis, that has to be taken care of . Please do not have any negative thinking during the act with your wife. Do regular exercises and have good diet. Go for a vacation with your wife. If nothing helps, then you may consult your family physician/ endocrinologist/ Psychiatrist for some pharmacological intervention if need be. Wish you good luck.