I had extra skin on my anus for a long time, but I never really worry if it s harmful or not. I showed my girlfriend, and she looked it up. She s really worry that it could be dangerous and wants me to see the doctor and get it removed, but I don t want to because it s really embarrassing. There has never been any bleeding or pain or discomfort. It s soft, and it s not giving me any problems. What do you think this is, and is it harmful?