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Fear Of Not Being Able To Perform Sex And Not Fallen Into Any Relationship

I'm a 36 year old who never had sex. I know I'm not unattractive, but i keep failing to have a relationship with women. I think I'm being hold back because of fear of not being able to perform at the moment itself (I've experienced that before). Also acquiring a relationship is difficult because of being known for never having a girlfriend.
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Fri, 14 Mar 2014
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I think, you have performance anxiety and due to this, you are avoiding being in a relationship. Better to find a partner for you and have sex with her. You can try first one foreplay and gradually to intercourse. Try sex in different position and different location at home, that would help to decrease underline anxiety. You can also consult psychiatrist for few drugs like paroxetine or tadalafil to increase performance.

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Fear Of Not Being Able To Perform Sex And Not Fallen Into Any Relationship

Hi Thanks for using healthcare magic I think, you have performance anxiety and due to this, you are avoiding being in a relationship. Better to find a partner for you and have sex with her. You can try first one foreplay and gradually to intercourse. Try sex in different position and different location at home, that would help to decrease underline anxiety. You can also consult psychiatrist for few drugs like paroxetine or tadalafil to increase performance. Thanks