Hello, I Am Desperate For My 35 Yr Old Son:

Hello,
I am desperate for my 35 yr old son: He first almost died about 10 yrs before with encephalitis AND spiral menegitis & shingles! He took a long time recovering but now he has episodes of losing his breath, heart beat changes and slows (this had happened several times and his wife was with him 3 nights ago when it happened again. The doctors are saying now there is no tumor and they are trying to say it is some nerve thing like it's nothing. Well, my son has done a lot of studying and he says he knows the difference between having a nervous attack and when something is really bad inside. He has decided if he dies, he dies, for he is getting hurt by them calling this a nervous attack. He said from now on he will take his chances at home-(no more being embarrassed by them saying such crap). I know him and he is so calm and doesn't even get afraid if he were to die. Can this tumor be a moving thing lke a parasite?? I've heard of such things and found out many autopsies parasites are found. PLEASE HELP ME HELP HIM-I DO NOT WANT HIM TO DIE...Oh they also did find some kind of tropin risen or lowered in his heart test but what's sickening, he lives in the country and by the time he gets set up with a dr. (seems like forever) he seems normal again. so he is never going back if he loses his breath again... Thannk you ! His medical bills are so high for nothing! He is embarrassed and will not go back again! I want him to get some kind of test for a parasite that could do this. Am I wrong? Or what is this?? I am praying his wife (has a huge ins. on him) really cares too. She seems to.