Hey, I'm 5 months out and happily now out of a very sad 8 year marriage. I recently have had a new sex partner and he is a lot bigger and rougher than my husband was. I've really enjoyed the sex we've had, but we've had to stop because both times i started to bleed during intercourse. I saw my doctor and she said my cervix was completely healthy and normal. My sti testing is clear, and my pap is up to date. The bleeding she suspects came from up higher than my cervix! I want to have intercourse with him again. What can we do or try next time to prevent the bleeding from happening? He wants to put the whole thing in, are we just incompatible? I like the pain... Should I just be okay with the blood if I like him being rough?