Hi. I was diagnosed at 15 with PCOS, and I'm 18 years old.
I had my period once when I was 13, since then I've never had it again.
My doctor prescribed me with Metformin. I don't take the medication. He told me my chances of having children aren't too great. And that weight loss, and a healthy lifestyle, along with the Metformin will help bring on my periods at least.
In the past 6 weeks, I've had sex with 3 different men. The last time was last night.
I had unprotected sex on the 14th of August with guy #1 who is my ex-boyfriend. And he didn't cum at all. I had unprotected sex again with him a week later on the 21st of August. He did ejaculate but not inside of me.
On the 9th of August I had sex with guy #2.
I had internal vaginal tearing and I bled for 4 hours. He said he came and then left my house, but I'm pretty sure he didn't cum at all and just said that because he realized he teared me. I think it happened because I wasn't self lubricated enough.
Then last night I had unprotected sex with guy #3. I was more self lubricated, but he teared me too. He did cum but he pulled out. I know the chances of being pregnant through precum are very slim, but still possible.
But what about the chances of falling pregnant through precum, with PCOS, and no period at all in years? I'm scared I may be pregnant. And I'm also wondering why I am tearing so easily? I had no problem with tearing with guy #1 at all. I think it was because before I started having sex with him it had been over a year since I last had sex and I was very sexually frustrated, even just rubbing my arm would turn me on instantly.
But with these other guys I've been teared inside my vagina.
And since having sex with guy #2, I've been feeling weird in the lower part of my stomach. I apparently menstruate, but without bleeding. But I'm not sure if I ovulate.
Basically my questions are:
1. Is there a possibility of falling pregnant with PCOS, no period and through precum with any of these men? I don't think I'm at all pregnant to guy #1. But the other two men...
2. Why am I bleeding so much with these tears? And how long should I wait to have sex again? Is there any way to prevent these tears from happening again? Its very embarrassing.
Its also actually inside my vagina not on my labia. Most things I read on the internet didn't help at all, as most of the articles I read said that the women had tears on their labias, and my tear(s) are on the inside of my vagina.
I have a doctors appointment booked for next week, but I just wanted to know now.