Hi I'm A 32year Old Female. In 2014 I Had

Hi I'm a 32year old female. In 2014 I had a diagnosis of transverse myelitis,given steroids and symptoms of numb feet and legs with cold sensation went away,only leaving electric shock type feeling when I bent my head forward. March 2015 I have another bout of symptoms the same as before,Neuro said looking towards ms but will not commit to a diagnosis as yet. Also since giving birth to my son ten years ago I get recurring shoulder pain,sometimes I can't move my arms it's so painful,also painful knees,wrists and ankles. Rheumatoid arthritis has been rules out from bloods. I seen gp this week and he said he's referring me back to rheumatologist as he thinks I may have lupus! I had a few low platelet counts on a few different tests,and he now says one of my tests have come back positive for something going on. I feel I'm going mad with all this. Please help xxx