Hi, I'm a 47 yo . Lifelong trans, happily married with kids.
I'm at a point in my life where , with my wife's consent , I would like to take steps to feminize myself.
I do not wish to transition fully .
Our goal , is for me to develop softer ,clearer and hair free skin. Nipple and breast enhancement kept to a minimum. Widening of the hips and a fuller bottom are very desirable . I do not intend to live full time .
We have researched on the net and so am now seriously considering starting me on 150mg spironolactone & using female birth control pills x2 per day.
I have waited my entire life to do this, please advise me.......I will effectively be self medicating.

Vikki