Hi, my name is Mechille...I need help...my boyfriend I met 8 yrs ago I'm afraid of...This man has never been married, he is 62. I'm 54 I lost my husband in 2011...my boyfriend has many issues but I have no clue what diagnosis he would fall under. This is my life, his name is RUSS, he lies, he has stole and hidden my college books and says he didn't do it, I can buy towels, sheets, and they disappear and he says
he does not know what I'm talking about. He cherishes cats, animals. He really devotes over cats. He lived with his mother until she died had apartments but got evicted, he mentally abuses me with his mouth and never ever admits he is wrong or sorry..Im am worn down to the end, when he gets paid he has to spend it and cannot manage.money, always wanting to buy movies, pizzas, then he realizes he does not have enough money for gas to get to work, he has hit me. He asks me and calls me.on my cell phone all the time if I have errands. He won't hold a.conversation with me walks right pass me in the house, we can be sitting in the same room and he will.not say anything until I ask him, can't you talk to me, he makes.me.feel lonely, like I am the problem, blames me never him. Can you tell me what kind of person this is because I am trying to leave him but it is hard. I KNOW I will have to get the law to evict him from my home, can you help and what kind.of.counseling I need to heel myself, any advice I will need I am desperate. Thank you.