My grandson was diagnosed with aspergers syndrome around the age of 5. He is 18 and struggling. We are at a loss as to direction to go. He won t take medicines, dropped out of high school 6 weeks before graduation, was a brilliant percussionist, frequently has talked about suicide, has gotten 3 speeding tickets in last few months and can no longer drive to work on his own due to loss of insurance. We need advice. He has been to psychologist, been kept on 72 hour hold at facility in Kansas city, etc. Please help.