What do you do when your loved one is obsessed with only 2 things from sun up to sun down. All she wants to do is to smoke cigarettes drink coffee. She s not interested in taking a bath, going to get a hair cut, or any of the normal daily functions. She just sleeps, smokes, and drinks coffee. She has been diagnosed with dementia. She tells the same story over and over. She doesn t remember names and who you are; but she does remember that she smokes and drinks coffee. What to do???