Dear service user,
Thank you for seeking help with HCM. I will try my best to address your concerns.
The concern regarding penile size is very common. The width and length of erect penis vary greatly from one individual to another. The size of penis has no relationship with sexual satisfaction of the partner. The lack of knowledge makes you fearful and apprehensive.
Another fact is that only outer one third and the front wall of vagina have
nerve fibers and hence sensitive to stimulation. Rest of inner two third is largely insensitive. So if you want to arouse and turn your partner ON during sex, you should focus on the areas of maximum nerve endings hence
clitoris and inner lips or
labia minora, the outer wall and lower two inches of vagina. So for female sexual gratification, the size of erect penis could be anything from two inches or more! You remember that what important is strength and not the length! Entry and to and fro continuous movements are adequate. It is men's technique, not his penis size that characterizes the lover in him. ‘Bigger is better’ is myth.
One can gain ejaculatory control over a period of time by practicing behavior methods as below,
1. Stop-start technique of behavior therapy.
2. Female on top with active role.
3. Double condom
4. Medicines like
Fluoxetine 20 mg day or
Paroxetine CR 25 mg per day.
(To be taken under medical supervision only)
5. Pelvic muscle strengthening exercise. (As if try to hold urine intermittently during voiding)
6. Penile squeeze technique applied at the point of ejaculatory inevitability.
7. Applying a local
anesthetic ointment to
glans penis prior to penetration.
I hope, I addressed all the concerns properly.
Wish you good sexual life ahead.