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How Can I Make My Husband Responsible?
Hi doctor....my husband is not responsible and not taking care of me.we have been married for 5 yrs with toddler.how I need to handle him bcz my health is not good.so many times I explained nd talked about every thing I can but he is not behaving like a man.plz help me.
Thu, 10 Apr 2014
Hi,
i understand your plight. However, this is only one side of the story. It might help to gain your husband's perpective too on the whole scenario. Many a times, (need not be always) difficulties similar to yours are 'circular' in nature - his behavior produces a reaction in you and your reaction further increases his behavior. The idea, then, is to be aware of each of yours' contributions to the problem. I strongly suggest you both consult a marital therapist who can help you with this.
Regards,
Abdul
i understand your plight. However, this is only one side of the story. It might help to gain your husband's perpective too on the whole scenario. Many a times, (need not be always) difficulties similar to yours are 'circular' in nature - his behavior produces a reaction in you and your reaction further increases his behavior. The idea, then, is to be aware of each of yours' contributions to the problem. I strongly suggest you both consult a marital therapist who can help you with this.
Regards,
Abdul
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