hi, I had a boyfriend who dumped me. I have had sex with him uncountable number of times, as I thought he would marry me. I am getting married to another guy arranged by my parents. I belong to a conservative society where losing virginity before marriage is not accepted. The guy I am getting married to is also belong to a conservative family. I can admit at any cost that I am not a virgin. So, other than bleeding is there any way the guy can find out that I am not a virgin? If so, how do I hide? Please help.