i had been in labor a month ago and had tore a bit.. i was in pain for a week or so when stitches were still dissolving then it was better now its a month later anfd where the stitches were put im in horrible pain, hard to move/walk even sit at times, etc i looked it is bright red and swollen like crazy on the right side.. not on the lip though its where the opening to the hole is.. what do i do? is this normal? helpp :( its even hard to do normal activitys like take care of my daughter or even get up from bed