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How To Develop Positive Attitude Towards A Person?
I don t feel like being very nice to my boyfriend whom I live with. I love him but I don t like him. I can feel myself being mean and cant stop it. everything he does annoys me right down to how he chews his food to how his nose whistles when he breathes. He isn t even mean. He s a really good guy. I have been with him for two years. I want to like him but most of the time I just don t. I feel like Im going crazy.Should I just leave and be alone..Im scared to because I know what a good caring man he is. Is it just me?
Tue, 22 Sep 2020
General & Family Physician, Dr. Vasudha's Response
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Yes, it seems to be on your part not being positive towards him. Please try not to get irritated with his small activities that annoy you. Try to think other way round. Accept the things, see if you could help him improve. If not just leave it. Stop thinking or noticing the things that unnecessarily annoy you. Please understand that every person and even you do have some mistakes / irritating behavioral patterns and just good adjustment in two partners is needful for a good relationship.
Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Vasudha Jayant Athavale, General & Family Physician
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How To Develop Positive Attitude Towards A Person?
Hi, Yes, it seems to be on your part not being positive towards him. Please try not to get irritated with his small activities that annoy you. Try to think other way round. Accept the things, see if you could help him improve. If not just leave it. Stop thinking or noticing the things that unnecessarily annoy you. Please understand that every person and even you do have some mistakes / irritating behavioral patterns and just good adjustment in two partners is needful for a good relationship. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Vasudha Jayant Athavale, General & Family Physician