Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Please understand that your problem do not need any psychiatrist s intervention. What you need to know can be taught by any old lady. Listen to your parents, in-laws and other elders. They should provide effective counseling because they are experienced in that. A psychologist can also give you such a counseling, but you may have to give him some fees. Don t think that elder ladies are not qualified psychologically. Elder ladies are more qualified psychologically than a psychology post graduate, life teaches value added psychology. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.