today I had sex for the first time in like a month with my boyfriend and usually my labia minora swells a little after sex but this time it s so bad and looks like another pair of lips, you can see it coming out of my bigger labia...it s also pretty red and painful. what should I do to treat the swelling? I really want it to go down otherwise I would be really self conscious with how my vagina looks. p.s. we use protection although we are in a monogamous relationship as well