Hello, and I hope I can help you today.
Even though your baby is large for
gestational age (LGA) as long as the doctors who are monitoring her and doing her ultrasounds think she is healthy, early induction is not recommended. There are two reasons for this- for one, natural labor has an increased chance of delivering vaginally compared to induction, even for a large baby, and secondly- babies born before 39 weeks can have respiratory problems if they are delivered electively, so (in the US at least) it is not recommended to deliver before 39 weeks except for situations where the baby is in more danger inside you than out.
So even though your daughter is large, as long as she is healthy, it is best for you and her to wait for natural labor.
If you have a low-lying placenta, the placenta cannot get "caught" in the baby's head as it descends in the pelvis, rather, compression of the pelvis by the head can actually prevent bleeding from the edge of the placenta.
Now- the question if she is too big for your pelvis can only be known if you go into labor. The baby's head "molds", meaning the skull actually changes shape as it descends through the birth canal during labor. The fact that your baby hasn't droppped yet just means that you are unlikely to go into labor anytime soon. It is true that if the baby is really too big to enter your pelvis (called inlet
dystocia) that she will not drop even in labor and your OB can feel this during labor and if it happens, you will need a c-section.
But in your case, your doctors are correct in waiting until at least 39 weeks to consider intervening. A large baby is not at increased risk of any problems as long as it is not due to
diabetes or other medical problem. Many women can deliver 9+ pound babies without a problem, so there is no way to know in advance how your delivery will go.
I hope this answers your question and that my advice was helpful.
Best wishes for the rest of your
pregnancy, and good luck with your delivery,
Dr. Brown