So me and my boyfriend just had sex for the first time, I think. Things were getting a bit heated, and he asked if I was ready, being that I m a virgin and I ve told him before that I wanted to wait. I said Yes, and I felt some pain, not too bad, and I m not sure what all happened being that I was really caught up in the moment. There was no blood or anything and I m pretty sure he was all the way in, but I just wanted to know if I ve really just lost my virginity or not. Is this a stupid question?? I didn t orgasm or anything, but he apparently finished. And I m just wondering if there is a way to Tell if it really happened tonight.